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Bride Of The Week: Ronké Marie Essien

Bride Of The Week: Ronké Marie Essien

Written By Kaileah Christine

November 23, 2020

Our #GLBride of the week is the gorgeous Ronké Marie Essien, who said her forever nuptials in our Gia and celebrated in our Alexandra. The couple decided to say 'I Do' at the Julia Thompson Smith Chapel at Agnes Scott College and hold their opulent gold and Versace themed reception at Ronké's favorite restaurant, STK Steak. In the following interview, Ronké shares her favorite wedding details, moments, and how she decided on not one but two GL gowns.

"My theme was Black, Versace, and orchids."

Ronke

How did you meet your husband? Tell us a little bit about your relationship.

I met him at a popular bar hanging out with my girlfriend one evening. He was with a friend of his. He said when they walked in and saw us, his friend told him to talk to the “mean one” – me. Ironically, he was born on the exact day my parents were married. This August 16th would have been my parents’ 50th wedding anniversary. My husband will turn 50 that day.

How did you find your perfect dress?

I never expected to find my dress in Atlanta, so I sat down at the computer one day. I don’t remember what I typed in the search bar, but Galia Lahav came up in the findings. I was not familiar with the brand but I remember going through the website and thinking these were the most elegant and detailed gowns. However, I am short and busty, and I always joke that I’m shaped like a coke can and not a coke bottle so I said these dresses were not made for me. But my alter ego is about 5’9” and can wear anything.

I saw that the only flagship boutique in the US at the time was in LA, and I was going to visit my aunt who lives in PV, so I decided to make an appointment to see if I could actually pull off one of the GL creations. I tried on 3 dresses, the 3rd being GIA. I always imagined I would wear something fit and flare, no lace, very architectural. GIA was none of those things but for some reason, I kept staring at it in the boutique. I tried it on just to prove it was a ridiculous option. There was no mirror in the dressing room.

When I came out to stand on the riser the stylist asked if I would like some water and she went to get it. When I stepped up on the riser and turned around in the mirror I completely involuntarily started crying. I had no idea what was happening, that is not characteristic of me at all. I used to watch say yes to the dress and always thought that would never happen to me. But I can testify it is true. When the stylist came back and saw my ugly cry, she said, “Oh my goodness what happened?” I told her I have no idea but I love this dress.

"I never expected to find my dress in Atlanta..."

Ronke

What was your first wedding song?

Reception intro “Paid the Cost to Be the Boss” James Brown, First dance “Lady in My Life” Michael Jackson.

What moment from your wedding will you never forget?

I hired a choir to sing my husband’s favorite hymn while we took communion during the ceremony. He cried and I had to hold him by the arm to keep him from breaking down. He nor my guests had any idea that there was a choir in the chapel. One of my guests said she thought it sounded like angels and she couldn’t figure out where the sound was coming from until she turned around and saw the choir standing on the balcony behind everyone.

"This was my first and last wedding so it had to be as I imagined."

Ronke
Credits

Bride’s Instagram | @nigeria72
Flowers | Bettina McDowell - @designsbettina
Venue Ceremony | Agnes Scott College – Rita James @agnesscott_events
Julia Thompson Smith Chapel Website
Venue Reception | STK Steakhouse Atlanta @eatstk
Hair | Angela Gibson @1salon902
Makeup | Nikia Yancey @kiafabimage
Jewelry | Keren Wolf @kerenwolf
Shoes - Versace @versace \ Rene Caovilla @renecaovilla
Decor | Jacqueline Vizcaino – Unique Event Elements @uniqueeventelements
Grooms Cake | O How Sweet Cake - Sheva Fairley @ohowsweetcakes
Wedding Cake | Frosted Pumpkin - Jeffrey Schwerzler @frostedpumkincakes
Music/Ceremony/Organist/Pianist/Choir/Soloist/Harpist/String Quintet | Trey Clegg @thetreycleggsingers
DJ | Mars Hall @djmars404
Accommodations | W- Atlanta Downtown @watlantadowntown
Video | William Simmons @shotby_supremevisuals

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